The People Who Surprise Us
Sometimes the people we expect to struggle with our trans or nonbinary child surprise us most. A grandpa, an aunt, a school director, and 15 years in Guatemala.
If you’re here, there’s a good chance you’re carrying a lot — questions, worry, love, maybe exhaustion you haven’t named yet.
This blog isn’t here to rush you, convince you, or tell you what kind of parent to be.
It’s a place to pause, steady yourself, and read at the pace your life allows.

Sometimes the people we expect to struggle with our trans or nonbinary child surprise us most. A grandpa, an aunt, a school director, and 15 years in Guatemala.

What's it like to have a trans or nonbinary sibling? A personal look at loyalty, family attention, and how parents can support every child.

If your child changes their gender label, it doesn't necessarily mean they're confused. They may simply be figuring out who they are as they grow.

You can know your family incredibly well and still get it entirely wrong about what they're thinking or worrying about. Especially when nobody is saying much.