Supporting Your Transgender or Nonbinary Child:

Practical Guidance for Parents

Beyond the noise. Start with a breath. Stay for a shift.

If you’re here, there’s a good chance you’re carrying a lot — questions, worry, love, maybe exhaustion you haven’t named yet.
This blog isn’t here to rush you, convince you, or tell you what kind of parent to be.
It’s a place to pause, steady yourself, and read at the pace your life allows.

Find what feels most relevant right now

You don’t need to read everything.
If one piece helps you exhale a little, that’s enough for today.

The People Who Surprise Us

The People Who Surprise Us

Sometimes the people we expect to struggle with our trans or nonbinary child surprise us most. A grandpa, an aunt, a school director, and 15 years in Guatemala.

The Siblings Have a Story, Too: When Your Child Has a Trans or Nonbinary Sibling

The Siblings Have a Story, Too: When Your Child Has a Trans or Nonbinary Sibling

What's it like to have a trans or nonbinary sibling? A personal look at loyalty, family attention, and how parents can support every child.

What If Your Child Keeps Changing Their Gender Label?

What If Your Child Keeps Changing Their Gender Label?

If your child changes their gender label, it doesn't necessarily mean they're confused. They may simply be figuring out who they are as they grow.

What We Don't Know About the People We Live With

What We Don't Know About the People We Live With

You can know your family incredibly well and still get it entirely wrong about what they're thinking or worrying about. Especially when nobody is saying much.