I Don’t Assume They Don’t Like My Child
A personal essay on assumicide, API (assume positive intent), and the parenting choice that keeps me sane — and my kids whole.
From My Chair
If you’re here, there’s a good chance you’re carrying a lot — questions, worry, love, maybe exhaustion you haven’t named yet.
This blog isn’t here to rush you, convince you, or tell you what kind of parent to be.
It’s a place to pause, steady yourself, and read at the pace your life allows.

A personal essay on assumicide, API (assume positive intent), and the parenting choice that keeps me sane — and my kids whole.

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