The People Who Surprise Us
Sometimes the people we expect to struggle with our trans or nonbinary child surprise us most. A grandpa, an aunt, a school director, and 15 years in Guatemala.
Supporting Your Transgender or Nonbinary Child:
Practical Guidance for Parents
Beyond the noise. Start with a breath. Stay for a shift.
If you’re here, there’s a good chance you’re carrying a lot — questions, worry, love, maybe exhaustion you haven’t named yet.
This blog isn’t here to rush you, convince you, or tell you what kind of parent to be.
It’s a place to pause, steady yourself, and read at the pace your life allows.
Find what feels most relevant right now
You don’t need to read everything.
If one piece helps you exhale a little, that’s enough for today.
What My Body Knew Before I Did
What if the overwhelm didn't begin when your child came out? A personal story about parenting, body memory, and the things we thought we'd already resolved.
What If Your Partner Isn't On Board?
On slow arrivals, the mama bear reflex, and what it means when you're ready to support your child and your partner isn't — yet.
I Don’t Assume They Don’t Like My Child
A personal essay on assumicide, API (assume positive intent), and the parenting choice that keeps me sane — and my kids whole.
