For Parents of Trans and Nonbinary Kids
Steadiness in loud, uncertain Times
When the world feels hostile,
your child needs you rooted — not bracing.
Not ready to talk?
A moment of calm might be enough for today.
You’re in the Right Place If...
You’ve been strong for so long that being on edge feels normal.
You love your child fiercely — and still feel the weight of the world.
You stay informed, but it keeps your shoulders tight.
You replay conversations long after they’re over.
You want to protect your child without losing yourself.
If you're nodding… you're not doing this wrong.
You’re tired.
You don’t have to stay on guard to be a devoted parent.
What's different here
Most support for trans and nonbinary families focuses on the child — advocacy, education, community.
All of that matters.
But there’s something just as important:
The emotional tone of your home begins with you.
When you’re constantly on edge, your child feels it.
When you’re steady, they feel that too.
Living in permanent alert mode can feel protective.
But over time, it drains you — and tension becomes the background noise.
Your child doesn’t need more intensity.
They need steadiness.
Not perfect.
Not endlessly patient.
Just rooted enough that they can lean into you.
That’s the work we do here.
I’m a sexologist, a hypnotherapist, and the mom of a nonbinary child.
I know what it’s like to love your kid with everything you’ve got — and still feel furious, scared, or completely worn down.
I’ve cried in rage reading ignorant comments online.
Held my breath at immigration checkpoints.
Faced the silence. The stares. The systems never built for families like mine.
For a long time, I believed staying alert meant staying protective.
But I began to see something clearly:
My constant tension wasn’t shielding my child.
It was draining me.
And a drained parent can’t create a steady home.
So I did the deeper work — not to become indifferent to the world,
but to stop letting it run my internal state.
Now I help affirming parents return to steadiness.
Because in this world right now your child needs one place that is.
Start Where You Are
You don’t have to do it all today.
Just take the step that feels most doable right now.
Path 1: Peaceful Warrior Calm Audio (7 min)
Free. Standalone. Yours to keep.
For the moment, your stomach drops after reading the news.
For when a comment lingers longer than it should.
For when your chest feels tight, and you don’t want to carry that into dinner.
This short audio helps you settle your footing.
No fixing.
No forcing positivity.
No pretending things aren’t hard.
Just grounding, when you need it most.
Path 2: Anchor in the Storm Call (45 min)
Free. One-on-one. Experiential.
When your thoughts won’t slow down.
When you’re tired of holding it all together.
When you don’t want to spiral again.
This isn’t just space to talk.
It’s space to experience what steadiness actually feels like — even in the middle of everything.
We slow things down.
Clear the noise.
And bring you back to solid ground.
Not because the world is calm.
But because you can be.
You’ll leave clearer. More anchored. Less reactive.
If you’re ready for deeper work
The Peaceful Warrior Path is a 6-week 1:1 program.
This isn't crisis intervention.
It's transformation — learning to live and lead from steadiness, not reaction.
Through hypnotherapy, somatic work, and cognitive reframing, you'll shift how you show up for your child and yourself.
What becomes possible:
You stop replaying hard conversations all night
You walk into school meetings grounded, not already braced
You quiet the voice that whispers, "I'm not doing enough"
You respond instead of react
You protect your child without living in constant tension
You trust your own judgment again
The Anchor Call is your bridge into this work.
It's where you'll experience what's possible — and decide if it's right for you.
If you’re ready to stop living in constant alert…
Start here.
The Anchor in the Storm Call is a quiet space just for you.
No pressure. No performance.
Just a place to reset your footing.
Because when you’re steady, your child feels it.
