For Parents of Trans and Nonbinary Kids

Steadiness in loud, uncertain Times

When the world feels hostile, 
your child needs you rooted — not bracing.

Not ready to talk?
A moment of calm might be enough for today.

Get the 7-Minute Calm Audio

You’re in the Right Place If...

You’ve been strong for so long that being on edge feels normal.
You love your child fiercely — and still feel the weight of the world.
You stay informed, but it keeps your shoulders tight.
You replay conversations long after they’re over.
You want to protect your child without losing yourself.

If you're nodding… you're not doing this wrong.  You’re tired.

You don’t have to stay on guard to be a devoted parent.

What's different here

Most support for trans and nonbinary families focuses on the child — advocacy, education, community. All of that matters.

But there’s something just as important: The emotional tone of your home begins with you.

When you’re constantly on edge, your child feels it.  When you’re steady, they feel that too.

Your child doesn't need more intensity; they need a place to lean.

That’s the work we do here. We move from "Crisis Mode" to "Connection Mode."

What we do together

Support your child — without losing your own identity in the process.
Build trust and closeness, even during the "tough" conversations.
Soften the voice that whispers, "I'm not doing enough."
Stay grounded in spaces that don’t always feel safe — from school meetings to family dinners.

I’m a sexologist, a hypnotherapist, and the mom of a nonbinary child.

I’ve cried in rage reading ignorant comments online.  Held my breath at immigration checkpoints. Faced the silence. The stares. The systems never built for families like mine.

For a long time, I believed staying alert meant staying protective. But I realized: My constant tension wasn’t shielding my child. It was draining me.

So I did the deeper work — not to become indifferent to the world, but to stop letting it run my internal state.

Now I help affirming parents return to steadiness. Because in this world right now, your child needs one place that is.

I’m so glad you found your way here. 💛

Start Where You Are

You don’t have to do it all today.

Just take the step that feels most doable right now.

Path 1: Peaceful Warrior Calm Audio (7 min)

Free. Standalone. Yours to keep.

For when your chest feels tight, and you don’t want to carry that into dinner.

This short audio helps you settle your footing.

No fixing.
No forcing positivity. 

Just grounding.

Get the 7-Minute Calm Audio

Path 2: Anchor in the Storm Call (45 min)

Free. One-on-one. Experiential.

This isn’t just space to talk.

It’s space to experience what steadiness actually feels like — even in the middle of everything.

We slow things down.  Clear the noise. 

You’ll leave clearer.  More anchored.  Less reactive.

If you’re ready for deeper work

The Peaceful Warrior Path is a 6-week 1:1 program.

This isn't crisis intervention.
 It's transformation — learning to live and lead from steadiness, not reaction.

Through hypnotherapy, somatic work, and cognitive reframing, we shift how you show up for your child and yourself.

The Anchor Call is your bridge into this work. It's where you'll experience what's possible — and we can decide together if the 6-week path is the right fit for you.